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 I met this man in Facebook in 2011 and instantly, we got talking and he visited Nigeria in 2013 . We were both happy to see each other physically for the first time and we spent some days together and we started relationship. He went back to Europe and returned the follow year which is 2014 . While we were together in our hotel room, I took his camera and went through the pictures but something wasn't  right to me as I saw several baby pictures of the same person  and I asked him since he told me he was not married and single and do not have any child.  So immediately I showed him the picture, he said he looked at me and said it's his friend baby that he went for his naming ceremony. After series of questioning he eventually opened up and told me the baby his but he is not with the woman again. Stupid love right? I bought the fairy tales  and we moved on and less than a month I discovered I was pregnant and we both made a plan to settle and start a fa...

After suffering a tragic loss, her husband Ben found a way to support one another through the trauma.⁠ ⁠ "For me, learning to embrace rather than resent the ways Ben and I are different has been a key lesson. He lives in the present and loves to spend money on experiences, whereas I’m naturally much more cautious. ⁠ ⁠ "The Easter after Willem died, Ben was working in Africa and said, ‘Why don’t you and the children come out?’ Previously, I might have thought that we shouldn’t go; that travelling through rough terrain with two small children would be too dangerous. ⁠ ⁠ "I’m so glad we did, because for the first time since our loss, I went an entire day without feeling that aching sadness that Willem wasn’t there. It was an amazing moment when I realised my life wasn’t always going to be consumed by grief."⁠